"What Helps Me" Worksheet
A "What Helps Me" worksheet involves creating a personalized reference that clearly identifies activities, strategies, and resources proven effective in managing stress, anxiety, depression, and low moods. This self-reflective tool is completed during calm moments or therapeutic sessions, enhancing emotional self-awareness, supporting effective emotional regulation, and providing immediate guidance during difficult emotional states.
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8-12 min
Anxiety Skill Rating Scale
Feeling confused about which coping strategies actually help versus those that just feel familiar, wasting time on ineffective anxiety techniques during crisis moments, or struggling to remember which approaches worked best in similar situations? This evidence-based approach transforms scattered anxiety management attempts into a systematic, data-driven toolkit that reveals your most effective coping strategies through objective evaluation. An anxiety skill rating scale involves immediately documenting and rating the effectiveness of anxiety-management techniques after each use, creating personalized insights about which strategies best regulate your unique emotional patterns. This structured self-monitoring approach eliminates guesswork from anxiety management, builds confidence in your most effective tools, and creates evidence-based coping plans tailored to your specific needs and triggers. Research demonstrates that systematic self-monitoring of coping strategy effectiveness significantly improves emotional regulation outcomes and reduces anxiety symptoms by enabling individuals to optimize their personal coping repertoires.
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5-10 min
Anxiety Symptom Checklist
Struggling to understand your anxiety patterns or wondering if your symptoms are getting better or worse? An anxiety symptom checklist gives you the clarity and control you need. This evidence-based tracking method involves systematically documenting the frequency, intensity, and types of anxiety symptoms you experience over time. Regular use enhances emotional self-awareness, promotes early detection of symptom patterns and triggers, and facilitates proactive management of anxiety through targeted coping strategies and informed therapeutic interventions.
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5-8 min
Balanced Thought Writing
Balanced thought writing is a cognitive-behavioral technique designed to help individuals recognize, challenge, and replace negative automatic thoughts with more balanced, realistic alternatives. This structured journaling approach aids emotional regulation and enhances mood by shifting harmful thought patterns.
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5-10 min
Create an Anxiety Timeline
Creating an anxiety timeline involves mapping significant life events, anxiety symptoms, and coping patterns chronologically to understand how anxiety developed and persists, supporting targeted intervention within 15-25 minutes of reflection.
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15-25 min for initial creation, 5-10 min for periodic updates
Daily Emotional Check-Ins
Daily emotional check-ins involve briefly pausing each day to mindfully assess your current emotional state, promoting greater self-awareness and emotional regulation. Consistently tracking emotions helps individuals respond proactively to stress, anxiety, and mood fluctuations.
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3-5 min
Differentiate Fear vs. Anxiety
Differentiating fear versus anxiety involves thoughtfully distinguishing between reactions to real, present threats (fear) and reactions to anticipated or imagined threats (anxiety). This process promotes clearer emotional understanding and helps individuals respond more appropriately to distressing emotions, significantly enhancing emotional regulation and reducing unnecessary stress.
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5-10 min
Evidence For vs. Against Thought
The "Evidence for vs. Against Thought" technique is a cognitive restructuring tool used to systematically evaluate anxious or distressing thoughts by examining objective evidence that either supports or contradicts them. This practice helps individuals gain clarity and challenge irrational worries, promoting more balanced and realistic thinking.
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10-15 min
Identify Personal Triggers
Identifying personal triggers involves systematically recognizing and clearly documenting specific environmental, emotional, or situational factors that provoke anxiety, stress, trauma responses, or negative mood changes. This heightened self-awareness allows for proactive coping, prevention, and better emotional management through targeted interventions.
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10-20 min
Identifying Cognitive Distortions
Identifying cognitive distortions involves recognizing and labeling inaccurate, exaggerated, or irrational thought patterns that commonly contribute to anxiety and depression. By becoming aware of these distortions, individuals can challenge them effectively and foster more balanced thinking.
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10-15 min
Journal Automatic Thoughts
Journaling automatic thoughts involves regularly documenting spontaneous, often negative or distorted thoughts that arise automatically in response to situations, emotions, or stressors. This structured reflection practice increases self-awareness, supports emotional processing, and facilitates cognitive restructuring by clearly identifying patterns in thinking that contribute to anxiety, depression, or stress.
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10-15 min
Map the Anxiety Cycle
Mapping the anxiety cycle involves visually outlining how anxiety triggers lead to anxious thoughts and feelings, prompting avoidance or safety behaviors that temporarily relieve distress but ultimately maintain or intensify anxiety. By clearly understanding this cyclical process, individuals become empowered to break unhealthy patterns and proactively develop healthier responses to anxiety-provoking situations.
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10-15 min
Mood and Trigger Journal
Feeling trapped in cycles of emotional reactivity, struggling to understand why certain situations consistently derail your mood, or exhausted by repeating the same emotional patterns without insight into their origins? This evidence-based approach transforms scattered emotional experiences into clear, actionable patterns that empower you with profound self-understanding and targeted emotional regulation strategies. A mood and trigger journal involves systematically documenting your emotional experiences alongside their contextual triggers, associated thoughts, and behavioral responses to reveal the intricate connections driving your emotional life. This structured self-monitoring practice builds emotional intelligence, identifies previously invisible patterns, and creates a foundation for lasting psychological change. Research demonstrates that individuals who engage in systematic emotional tracking show significant improvements in emotional regulation, reduced symptoms of anxiety and depression, and enhanced overall psychological well-being.
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10-20 min daily, 15-30 min weekly for pattern review
Name Values That Matter During Anxious Moments
Naming values that matter during anxious moments involves clearly identifying and reflecting on personal values�core beliefs about what is meaningful and important�particularly during moments of anxiety, stress, discomfort, or fear. Rooted in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), this practice enhances emotional resilience and provides a deeper sense of purpose, guiding meaningful action despite difficult emotions.
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10-15 min
Name Your Inner Critic and Inner Coach
Naming your inner critic and inner coach involves personifying the negative, critical internal voice ("inner critic") and the compassionate, supportive internal voice ("inner coach"). This practice helps individuals become more aware of harsh self-talk, making it easier to consciously shift toward supportive, compassionate self-dialogue that enhances self-esteem and emotional resilience.
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5-10 min for initial naming, 2-3 min for daily practice
Pattern Tracking
Tracking patterns over time involves consistently recording and reviewing fluctuations in mood, energy levels, thoughts, and behaviors to identify recurring themes or patterns. This structured self-monitoring practice provides clarity about emotional trends, enhances self-awareness, and helps individuals proactively manage their mental health by revealing connections between experiences, emotions, and behaviors.
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10-15 min for daily tracking, 20-30 min for weekly pattern review
Personal Coping Skills Menu
Feeling paralyzed when anxiety strikes, scrambling to remember what actually helps, or cycling through ineffective strategies while your stress escalates? This evidence-based approach transforms scattered coping attempts into an organized, immediately accessible toolkit that empowers you with precise emotional regulation when you need it most. A personal coping skills menu involves systematically organizing diverse, proven anxiety-management strategies into clear categories tailored to your specific triggers and emotional patterns. This structured approach eliminates guesswork during emotional distress, provides immediate access to effective techniques, and builds confidence in your ability to manage challenging emotions. Research demonstrates that individuals with organized coping repertoires show significantly better emotional regulation and reduced anxiety symptoms compared to those relying on random strategy selection.
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10-15 min for initial creation, 5 min for weekly updates
Problem-Solving Worksheet
A problem-solving worksheet is a structured cognitive-behavioral tool that helps individuals systematically break down anxiety-inducing problems into smaller, manageable steps. By clarifying the nature of a problem and outlining actionable solutions, this approach empowers individuals to tackle challenges effectively and reduce anxiety.
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10-20 min
Recognize Anxiety vs. Panic
Recognizing anxiety versus panic involves clearly distinguishing between the general experience of anxiety (persistent worry or tension about future or uncertain threats) and panic (intense, acute episodes with sudden physical and emotional symptoms). Clarifying these differences supports accurate identification, enhances emotional self-awareness, and promotes selection of effective coping tools tailored to each experience.
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6-10 min
Reframing Anxious Predictions
Reframing anxious predictions is a cognitive restructuring technique that helps individuals identify and alter catastrophic or negative predictions about future events. By consciously reshaping these thoughts into realistic and balanced alternatives, this practice reduces anticipatory anxiety and promotes emotional stability.
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7-12 min
Rewrite Anxious Self-Statements
Rewriting anxious self-statements involves clearly identifying negative or anxiety-provoking thoughts and intentionally reframing them into more balanced, realistic, or compassionate statements. This cognitive restructuring practice interrupts habitual anxious thinking, fosters healthier emotional responses, and promotes long-term improvements in mood and emotional resilience.
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5-8 min
Self-Compassionate Scripting
Self-compassionate scripting involves writing a supportive, compassionate dialogue directed toward yourself, particularly after mistakes, setbacks, or when experiencing harsh self-criticism. This reflective practice cultivates self-kindness and mindfulness, reducing anxiety and emotional distress by reshaping internal dialogue toward greater self-understanding, empathy, and emotional resilience.
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5-10 min
Thought Tracking/Logging
Thought tracking (or thought logging) involves regularly recording anxious or distressing thoughts to identify recurring patterns, triggers, and underlying cognitive distortions. By consistently logging thoughts, individuals increase self-awareness and gain insights to effectively manage anxiety and stress.
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5-10 min
Understand Avoidance and Safety Behaviors
Understanding avoidance and safety behaviors involves identifying and clearly reflecting on subtle habits or actions used to reduce anxiety or discomfort temporarily, but which ultimately reinforce and maintain anxiety over time. Recognizing these behaviors helps individuals interrupt the anxiety cycle, promotes healthier coping strategies, and fosters long-term emotional resilience.
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8-15 min
Understand the Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn Response
Understanding fight/flight/freeze/fawn responses involves learning about your body's automatic survival reactions to perceived threats, building self-awareness and emotional regulation through biological insight within 8-12 minutes of reflection.
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5-10 min
Weekly Skills Tracker
Feeling overwhelmed by emotional challenges, struggling to remember which coping strategies actually work, or wanting to build more consistent mental health habits? This evidence-based approach transforms scattered emotional regulation efforts into a systematic, accountable practice that builds genuine resilience. A weekly skills tracker involves systematically recording your use of emotional regulation and anxiety-management techniques throughout the week, tracking both consistency and effectiveness. This structured approach promotes accountability, reinforces positive behavioral change, and supports clearer insight into the most beneficial practices for managing stress and anxiety. Research demonstrates that self-monitoring interventions can be highly effective for targeting and changing behaviors, particularly in mental health contexts where building emotional self-awareness and implementing consistent coping strategies are crucial for long-term wellbeing.
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5-10 min daily + 15-20 min weekly for reflection
Worst Case / Best Case / Most Likely
The "Worst Case / Best Case / Most Likely" technique involves systematically evaluating anxious or catastrophic thoughts by explicitly identifying the worst, best, and most likely outcomes of a situation. This cognitive restructuring exercise helps individuals manage anxiety by restoring a balanced, realistic perspective.
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5-10 min